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East Orange, New Jersey, United States
Well Rounded Intelligent Woman On A Mission...Im Ready to Show Women And Teens How To Have A Little Self Confidence..I am the road to becoming a Crime Scene Investigatior..Im So Filled With Love And Happiness And Im So Ready To Fulfill My Dreams!!!!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Having A Great Attitude

Positive attitude is so important in the society today as it will really helps a lot of people to solve their problem if they have adopted it. Below are the 4 benefits:
People who have positive attitude will be able to attract people. People will rather prefer to hang around with people who have positive attitude as they will feel happier and most importantly, they will also be infected by their positive attitude.
Positive attitude will enable people to have a unique way to look at the world from another angle. In their mindset, everything is possible to achieve. If they face a problem or they make a mistake, they will bounce back from it and they will find a solution to solve it. If we focus on the positive aspect of things, we will be happier and we will be able to achieve anything.
You will have so much to gain from having a positive attitude. You will feel happier, have a healthier body and wealthier. You will be able to handle problems and stress easier. It is free and it will not cost any money but the benefit of having a positive attitude is definitely worth your time to have it. So stop wasting your time today and start to adopt a positive attitude.
A positive attitude begins with being more self conscious of yourself. If you choose to love the way that you are and you are satisfied and confident, people around you will also feel the same way. So not only will having a positive attitude will help yourself, you will also help others.
Positive attitude is very viral. So why not help yourself but at the same time also help other people too. Time is precious and it will not help you if you keep on thinking of the negative thing. So start from today, have a positive attitude and live the life that you want to have.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Love...Such A Sweet Thing!!!


Falling in love and love are two quiet different feeling. Falling in love can be either a flash of emotions or a first step towards love.
Falling in love is a strong instinctive attraction to the person of the other sex. In case it’s mutual and both lovers will work at their relationships one day that feeling can grow into love. Falling in love is crazy, it very physical, it’s when knees are getting weak and temperature rises, love is calm, comfortable and mental.
You have to do nothing to fall in love and often there’s either nothing you can do to stop falling in love. It’s very illogical: you suffer from splashes of emotions, doubts, can’t fully control yourself and it’s all because of a person you usually almost don’t know. When we fall in love nature shows all it’s power on us. Sometimes it even goes against our sense when we understand that we can’t expect nothing good from these relationships that it’s the wrong person but still can do nothing about ourselves.Falling in love is the call of our sex but the object is instinctually chosen according to our ideals, dreams and etc although we may not realize it. We usually fall in love with the appearance of the person, with the way he/she walks, the way he/she talks. Sometimes we impute to our object of love some illusional, ideal qualities and the more we get to know that that person the less we fall for him or her. That’s when the feeling disappears eve faster than it appeared.The more two persons get to know each other, the more comfortable they get the less sharp, bright and exciting the feeling gets. Some couples continue their relationships and get married in the end some fall apart. It’s reasonable to say that a second pair of slippers by the bed and one more toothbrush in the bathroom is the end of that crazy falling in love but it also can be the beginning of something more serious.
Different people fall in love more or less often than other. Some are switching partners enjoying crazy emotions which never turn with them into a real love.
Some may fall in love for a short time while having some permanent partner they love, this can even ruin some stable relationships. Some can claim to be in love with two people at the same time. These are usually two very different people so that one can’t choose which type is better but can neither afford to take both. In the center of love there’s always only one person. We may call falling in love some kind of a temporary illness both mental and physical and won’t be very wrong. Some will say that it’s destructive, selfish, possessive, blind and give falling in love many other unpleasant definitions. But have those people ever been in love? Because if they have they would know that it differs from any other illness in on very essential way – it can be very pleasant. People nowadays often turn to antidepressants and drugs because it makes them feel better in the first case and makes them high in the second. Falling in love is the most natural and the least harmless kind of doping. Yes, it’s not mural, it never looks in the future, in fact it has no future but it gives life some spirit of freshness and youthfulness.

Love This Song Check It OUt

Incompatible, it don't matter though
'cos someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You're not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me
Or maybe you're in disguise

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There's enough for everyone
But I'm still waiting in line

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

25 Things About Ms.Tia babee

Ok so I was On my Cousin Janine Blog...mvheart.blogspot.com check her out the girl is amazing...But yea Im gonna bite her style and do 25 things about me.....

1.Im in love with reality tv..
2.Im a Criminal Justice Major trying to persue a job as a Crime Scene Investigator
3.My favorite feature on my body is my lips(yummy)
4.My favorite color is red something about that color screams 'REBEL'
5.I play by my own rules dont like following rules
6.I love creative writing
7.Some of my favorite books include anything that involves social inequality,diversity,crime,and gender
8.I love the word "Diffrent"
9.Im way to boy crazy to be married
10.I have two loves of my life and that Joshua and Jarrett
11.I hate when someone slurps or looks into their cup when they drink
12.Im least compatible with Gemini's and scorpios are my soul mates
13.My favorite food is ceaser salad
14.I like duffles better than totes...and clutch bags are sexier when going out
15.Im a boot fanatic all kinds some styles..
16.My nail polish always poppin like my lip gloss (lol)
17.I run my life on a tight schedule
18.I have 9 tatoos and I wish I could get my whole body tatted I love the art of it.
19.I do believe reading is fundamental
20.I love poetry..Langston Hughes is my fav..
21.I believe that everyone should have healthcare
22.I have a passion for making someone feel good about themselves..
22.Dont tell anyone but I love vintage clothing from the thrift store...
23.My mom is my best friend
24.Someone who is dumb is my worst enemy..to many resources are available for someone not to obtain common knowledge
25.My favorite saying is: "Love Me Or Leave Me Alone"

Monday, March 1, 2010

Lets Get Pretty Ladies


So As you guys might know I took a different route with my appearance and cut my hair..although I loved myself with long hair, I have fallen in love with myself with the hair cut. I say that to say this alot of people think that something so simple as a change of your hair style that can create a new found love for yourself.
In today’s generation, everybody desires to be sexy and have attractive looks. In fact having sexy looks is all about being self confident and feel comfortable. So just be cool and genuine! Don’t be synthetic. Besides ambiguity and panic be likely to have an awful impression, so don’t worry and just be yourself. It doesn’t matter whether you are overweight or underweight, the important thing is showing self-assured and feel comfy wherever you go.According to the recent research explains that being introvert will make the person an outgoing personality may be when they are with their friends or when they are with stranger. In fact, people can become an outgoing personality though they are introverts.Besides a good posture appearance will mae you sexier, and in addition feel comfy when you walk and always put your shoulders backward and walk with a bit of arrogant. And you can apply good perfume which gives natural smell not the cheap and stinking smells that irritate others. Well the natural tip for being younger and attractive looks is to drink plenty of water i.e. 8 glasses of water a day.Naturally it will give a natural glowing skin which looks fresh all the time; on the other hand, it is necessity to realize your skin type before you start using any cosmetics, so check out in your hands by applying the creams, lotion or anything that you are planning to use whether you feel irritation or allergic after you applied those cosmetics. If you felt any sort of irritation or allergic, then you should realise that it doesn’t suit your skin type.For instance if you are very fond of using cosmetics, then you should choose according to the weather and seasons which colours suits to you best in such weather. Like light and cool colours for hot summer day and dark and faded colours for rainy and chill day, like this there are so many colour combinations depending on seasons and weather.In addition, to give you a sexy dewy look, you can apply clear lip gloss in your eyelids and natural colour lip gloss in your pinkie lip. When it comes to colour combinations, black colour will increase sex appeal, so apply black eye linear and eye shadow. And even you can use eyelash curler and mascara or just wearing a simple black colour dress will be more than enough to appear sexy.Moreover red colour is also look sexy but if we observe in some other way, it can be look like a prostitute, because they usually apply red colour in lip, nails along with scary red sari.
On the other hand, being sexy is also depending on excellent grooming and suitable hair style based on the dress you are wearing at the moment. And for a good impression along with sexy looks, you shouldn’t have bad breath and you must have bright teeth which will give good first impressions. Even trimming finger nails and toe nails weekly will also present you an excellent caring for yourself. Don't forget to polish toenails.